Sunday, April 17, 2022

Dignity Dialogue  May 2022

 TRAVEL ISSUE  Cover Story


                                          Swami Vivekananda Temple at Kanyakumari

Buddies and Bonding

Raj S. Rangarajan


We have been buddies since college in 1958 and remain in touch. For our 60th anniversary as classmates in Ramnarain Ruia College in Mumbai, nine of us — four men with their better halves and yours truly — decided to traverse down memory lane. 


Thanks to Club Mahindra Resort membership spearheaded by two trip organisers, we have done the gamut of outings ranging from Ashtamudi and Poovar in Kerala to Yercaud and Tanjavoor in Tamil Nadu and Mahableshwar in Maharashtra, and many more. Our eclectic mix of nine comprised former corporate and government executives, bankers and entrepreneurs, homemakers and consultants.


We were as adept at playing rummy as spending cool evenings with elixirs from Scotland or dancing away the evenings. Our homemaker bunch was happy and grateful for the worry-free breaks from daily chores. Some of us were content in discussing gardening or shopping, and of course catching up on gossip. Others excelled in spiritual outpourings or astrology.


The mornings at these Club Mahindra breakfasts were leisurely accentuated by professionally laid-out culinary spreads with forbidden specialities becoming the norm, never mind the health standpoint. We got to indulge in some of these goodies that one does not make at home. Occasionally we felt there was no tomorrow!


Desserts were exquisite and one could die for the almond baklava. Afternoon boat rides on the Ashtamudi Lake in Quilon, Kerala were experiences to cherish and reminisce about. Not to forget freshly-fried mouth-watering cholesterol-rich “’bhajiyas’ at 4:30 pm, washed down with masala chai while admiring the placid lake. Camaraderie and fellowship were unmatched. Nostalgia formed the fabric of our conversations. Every old episode had a story to tell and the retelling of some had their own inevitable embellishments.


While we did have the usual arguments and lapses in memory, it was always a fun experience to meet up in March every year. Year 2021 was the exception. Each of us had our favourite tale of woe blended with geriatric affectations — some more dramatic than others. Having known each other for more than 60 glorious years, we were very predictable and argumentative: we laughed at the same old jokes, and occasionally completed each other’s sentences like so many seasoned couples.


With an approximate total age count of 700+ years between us, one of the aspirations of some was to skydive or bungee jump. If a former US president could do it at the age of 90, why not us?




                                                            Thanjavur Mandir


Saturday, April 16, 2022

Dignity Dialogue  April 2022


Try Pranic Healing


In these testing times when survival is at stake, healing physically and mentally is important. Raj S. Rangarajan provides a few pointers.


How often have we heard the refrain from medical practitioners in the EU: “It’s a matter of time, it is beyond us, guess, it’s timefor prayer.” This sentiment from doctors is prevalent in many cultures, religions and faiths all over the globe. Even in movies. Some openly carry their faiths with manifest articulation and external displays, others practice their beliefs quietly. Some others are insecure and reach out to the almighty in some form. In these situations do prayers help? 


Over the past two plus years, with the onset of the corona virus pandemic and following uncertainties in day-to-day living (read ‘survival’ in some countries), many seniors, younger folk and even school-going kids have been worried.


Some are helpless and throw tantrums to cope. The number of people who have taken to prayer has increased all over the world. Temples, churches, mosques, gurdwaras and other places of worship are overflowing with nonbelievers and nihilists. Reasons attributed are the relentless scourge of the pandemic with its mutative variants — Delta and now albeit a ‘milder’ Omicron — leading to doubts and fear of the unknown.


Some of us personally know or have heard of someone who succumbed to the virus affliction. In hospitals and nursing facilities in the US, we hear periodically of horror stories of helpless frustration as also joyous celebrations. Each day brings varied mixed emotions for frontline healthcare workers — doctors, nurses, caregivers, porters, drivers and other hospital staff — who are intimately involved in this common calling of healing. One wonders how they survive each day. One’s faith helps when everything seems lost. Ask any hospital care worker. 



                                                                            Vidya Tathacharya


Connecting with an unknown power beyond oneself seems to help many. Prayer keeps them going? Some articulate their sentiments overtly, others in subtle allusions in conversations with family and friends. Social networks and some media sadly spread negativity and a pervasive sense of doom.


With the pandemic not abating, many are supremely stressed and are hurting — physically, mentally and psychologically. There are instances of people hiring psychologists or therapists to live their daily lives. Many of us have to cope with newer healing mechanisms. Varied techniques are being offered — holistic, spiritual, natural, energy, crystals, reiki, aromatherapy, et al. 


One of the ‘energy’ methods used is called pranic healing founded by Grand Master Choa Kuk Sui (GMCKS), originally from the Philippines. His disciple from California is Master Stephen Co. Pranic healing is a highly developed and tested system of energy treatment that uses ‘prana’ to balance, harmonise and transform the body’s energy processes.


There is no touching of patients in this healing process as in allopathy. One such practitioner from Chennai is Vidya Tathacharya who follows Master Co. Vidya is an invocative, instructive healer and uses her basic faith and universal energy to heal people by following certain protocols. Her close, personal thoughts are addressed to herself — like prayer — and her spiritual focus is directed toward the person’s ailment. Her soul concentration helps the patient in distress. Attached to the Twin Hearts Meditation in Chennai since 2014, Vidya has been quietly healing ailments ranging from physical distress to lingering anger, from broken emotional relationships to road rage.


Qualified in psychology Vidya says, “Pranic healing doesn’t have to necessarily pertain to physical illness; the practice can also be applied to practical aspirations like getting a new apartment or acquiring a life partner.” Her practice trains women managers through proactive, Zoom sessions in their respective career disciplines. She also conducts group-energy courses in pranic psychotherapy where she addresses mental stresses, phobias, depression or other compulsive behaviour. Vidya narrated a recent incident wherein she healed a lady remotely.


An acquaintance had hinted that a particular person in Mumbai had suffered a stroke. While the patient was being stabilised by doctors, Vidya — 1,400 km away — focussed her ‘chakras’ and meditative experience to slowly redirect the existent pure energy toward the patient. Within five days the patient recovered and was in a position to start walking again. Each of us can self-heal; we don’t need another caregiver (see resources below). With ‘prana’ or life force all around us we can motivate our spiritual energy centres of the body to absorb and process our own bodies. Proper pranic breathing techniques will help us in absorbing air prana. If we expose ourselves to the sun, we can absorb sun prana.


Vidya adds, “The feedback from these meetings is very satisfying and personally instructive.” Lakshmi Gayatri Mantra is suggested for prosperity. Also shown below are pointers in terms of the chakras and the aura that accompanies it. It also shows how a specific part of one’s body can be healed by distant healing: it involves scanning the affected part, cleansing the dirty energy and energising the body part with fresh energy. Guru Stephen Co recommends bathing with water (with salt) will help in removing diseased energy from our body as well. Water and salt therapy is reportedly effective, strengthening the body and making it stronger.


A college classmate of mine has been constantly complaining that because of the pandemic problem, he lives in a state of terror. He is restless, cannot sleep, and admits that he would prefer to die. Mercifully, his cool, philosophically-minded wife realistically reassures him that dying is not that easy! His will to not live is constantly being tested by his will power to continue to survive, thanks to his daily dose of prescribed medication from homeopathy and ayurveda. In a light-hearted aside the wife admonishes: “Stop threatening!”


Resources

• https://www.thepranichealers.com/masterchoa-kok-sui-courses

• https://www.masterco.org/

• https://praniclifestyle.com/blogs/pranic-lifestyle/lakshmi-gayatrimantra-by-master-choakok-sui

• https://pranickolkata.com/twin-hearts/