Showing posts with label Bangalore. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Bangalore. Show all posts

Saturday, October 27, 2007

REALTY SPEAK: Why do people ’build’ this dream?

Bangalore



RAJ S. RANGARAJAN

Why is it that people want to own a house and live in it?
What exactly is the drive?

Have you noticed how owing property seems to be a global hope? Everyone and anyone – whether from Bangalore or Boston or Bermuda – dreams of owning a piece of land. Some like to build on it, others think of using it as an investment. Indian legends of yore and generic grandma stories have held forth benevolently on the advantages and benefits of owning land. Looks like these days, many of the old dictates are being taken to heart with Indians buying land as tho ugh it is going out of style. More so in some states of the Indian union.

Wonder why the fascination with land. Why not a pond or a river? We have heard of millionaires who own ranches and rivers, of celebrities who own castles and build lakes, but land – with brick and mortar – seems to be the common man’s dream. Let’s face it: a river or a stream is also property, but it is not hard-core. Not too many people know what to do with a body of water, unless they are creative architects who may be able to work wonders with water. Proponents of vasthu sastra talk favourably of water playing a significant role in a practitioner’s well-being or of the institution he or she owns or belongs to.

In the United States, the “American dream” presupposes owning property. At least that is the collective wisdom on the subject. Why is owning property so important? Why cannot one pass one’s time on earth without owning property? Is it the same syndrome that forces a schoolboy to scratch his name on his desk for immortality? Is it because we are basically earth-prone and of the earth? For some reason common behaviour has it that one should own property – a roof over one’s head – the famous makhaan that rounds up roti and kapda in populist culture.

Now, thanks to India’s plunge into material success and obviously liking it, the country’s rich and famous and wannabee celebrities are upping the ante to the next level. Apart from land – a house or a bungalow (I gather, these days the operative word is villa), Indians these days aspire to build a lovely, cosy and warm villa with petunias and geraniums (read garden!). And, in this home, they want to fill in luxury items from different parts of the world: perhaps Muranos from Venice, Wedgewoods from Britain or Farsh rugs from Persia, and of course the mandatory mementos of their trips to lands far and away.

Cosmic connection?

What is it that makes the human spirit want to build a home and decorate it? Is it listening to dictates of what is popular and acceptable or is it the cosmic connection to establish a place to stay? Perhaps a psychologist can tackle this better? With affluence has come an interest and obsession to expand one’s horizons. If you have a good home, what is wrong in having one with luxury items? Till the other day, “we couldn’t afford those lovely items” was the common refrain. Now anything is affordable. Hedonism and splurging are in, being a home bird and saving money are out.

Thus, we find Indians buying wall hangings and paintings, attending art shows, admiring antiques and discussing art. There always existed the artistic class, but more and more people have joined the bandwagon in exposing themselves to culture. Whether one is discussing figurative art, abstractionist art or even installations, we now have a new breed of Indians walking that extra mile to expose themselves to aesthetic pleasure.

At five-stars we overhear people discussing younger artists such as Raqib Shaw, Atul Dodiya and Jitish Kallat with older men Husain, Gaitonde and Tyeb Mehta having crossed into the big leagues – the million-plus dollar threshold.

In conclusion the question remains: Why does one have to own property? Any takers?

(The author can be reached at raj.rangarajan@gmail.com)

Saturday, August 4, 2007

REALTY SPEAK -- The choice of feeling free

Bangalore



RAJ S. RANGARAJAN

Who doesn’t wish to have the best maid for maintaining a clean home? But heard of instances where domestic help not only washes the dirt away, but the owner’s spirits too? Read on to know the author’s experience…

I feel liberated. Not because my wife left me. Not because I left her. Not because my horde of relatives decided to leave for good. Not because I retired. No, nothing of that sort. I feel free because I fired my house maid, Sitamma. What a relief! The respite is in spite of having three huge bedrooms, a drawing room, a dining room and a kitchen…not to miss the balconies that open to large open spaces that invite some cool breeze and choking dust too. My floors aren't particularly sparkling now, but at least I’m not a bundle of nerves with someone around!

I particularly feel liberated and free as a bird every weekday. Sitamma had refused to mark attendance anyway on Sundays. Now, I don’t have to be constantly waking up early each day expecting her royal presence.

When I hired her three months ago, I suggested a window of between 7 and 7.15 a.m. for reporting for duty as I leave by 8.30 for work. But soon I found myself waiting for her endlessly, allotting as much priority to her cleaning as I would to my work! Punctuality was not her strong point anyway. And, I didn’t like to have a shower when she was cleaning the house. Call it male fetish! I wasn’t prepared to waste my time counting my inventory of stainless spoons and forks every Sunday morning. Not that I have too many ‘chamchas’ and I am not being figurative.

In the three ‘long’ months of our association I found Sitamma dishing out the most creative excuses that you, me and everyone have heard over and over again! “I don’t have a watch,” “I missed my bus,” “The bus broke down,” “My uncle has a heart ailment – I need an advance on my salary,” “My grandpa is likely to die very soon – I need cash to meet him before he quits terra firma,” and the one that gets the cake, “My granduncle fell off a bullock cart in downtown Devanahalli!” My question: “What has all that to do with the price of eggs in Bangalore, or Devanahalli for that matter?” With so many excuses to deal with, I decided to dispense with Sitamma’s services.

Now I don’t have to keep cleaning after all the mess she creates in the first place. I don’t have to keep searching for the broom that mysteriously fell off the first floor verandah when I was shaving. I don’t have to keep looking for those empty beer bottles that I was planning to give to the security guy.

I can clean when I feel like – Sundays notwithstanding – when my whim suits me, even on weekdays. I don’t have to keep buying those detergent floor washers to suit her taste. I don’t have to check what I am wearing when I answer the doorbell. No one does tap the door too anymore. Definitely not Sitamma.

She can now trade her lies with someone else in Indiranagar, Jayanagar, Gandhinagar or Sadashivnagar! Please leave me alone.

I feel like a kid who dreams of his vacation after annual exams. Now, that’s what I call relief! I am holidaying in my three-bedroom flat, welcoming the breeze and shooing away the dust happily, all by myself…albeit once a week!

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